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Visiting China: Our Experiences

How to Cope with Culture Shock in China

4/21/2019

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If you have been to China before, you've experienced the intense culture shock that comes with it. I'd been to almost 20 countries before visiting China and even lived in a few but I was not prepared for how different it would be. We've made this guide to help first-time visitors and even returning tourists to understand the differences in culture as well as how to cope with the sudden change. 

Let me give you a little recap of my experience in China: I was lucky enough to stay in Harbin for summer 2018 as a part of my master's research and Nick visited for my last two weeks in the country. I can hardly speak any Mandarin and had never been to China before. I lived in a quirky Airbnb with a Chinese medicine student and had the help of a student translator. Besides them, I couldn't speak to anyone. English is a popular subject amongst university students, otherwise, there was not a high proficiency where I was located. In the very northeast of the country, there are also not many tourists from outside of China. In a city of 10 million, that means, many people often have not seen anyone of European decent in real life before and when they do, they are usually Russians working as part of a tourist attraction. I loved my time in China and can't wait to go back! But there are some things I wish I had been prepared for. 
Bronze lions in front of a temple in The Forbidden City, Beijing
Bronze lions in The Forbidden City, Beijing.
Language Barriers

I took ten weeks of Mandarin classes before I embarked on my research trip to China. I wanted to have a basic understanding as I would be there for 6 weeks and I know, from previous travels, that a little goes a long way when impressing locals with language. However, once I landed in China, I realized that the pronunciation of words is extremely important in Mandarin as it's a tonal language. For example, in English, accents don't prevent people from understanding each other. However, if I pronounced a Mandarin word in a different tone, the meaning was totally changed. Second-language giant
Babbel, named Mandarin as one of the hardest languages to learn for English speakers.

In the end, besides pronouncing and understanding numbers, my 10 weeks of Mandarin classes were pretty much useless. What I'm trying to say is, learning Mandarin is hard and if you find learning languages difficult like me, you'll have to put serious effort into learning the correct tones in the language.

How to Prepare: If you don't have time for Mandarin classes, download a good translator that can be used offline like Pleco and buy a SIM when you get there (roaming charges get expensive fast!). Also don't worry too much, people are always eager to help. People I met would their use phones to translate words back to me. Another thing to note: everyone has smartphones in China! If your going to bargain for clothes like I did, I would use my phone calculator to show them what I wanted to pay and they would return the haggle with theirs. Also, get a VPN to speak to your loved ones at home; it will help with the culture shock. I'll explain VPN's below in the Internet Control section. 
Man and woman speaking while sat at the entrance of a traditional Chinese building.
Our friend Vicki teaching Nick about Chinese history in The Forbidden City.
Forbidden City entrance
One entrance to The Forbidden City, Beijing.
Chinese calligraphy.
An impromptu calligraphy lesson at my Airbnb.
Over 3000 Written Characters 

Characters are one of the biggest differences between Western and East Asian cultures. If you're going to China for a short while, you'll have to accept that you won't be able to read signs, menu's or information while you are there. In tourist hot spots like Beijing or Shanghai, they will usually have signs in both English and Mandarin. But if you are travelling outside the realm of a tourist zone, like me, there will be lots of laughs between you and shops owners as you try to translate what you want. 

How to Prepare: If you are outside Beijing or Shanghai, I'd suggest travelling with a friend or translator fluent in Mandarin. If you're alone, write on your translator app what you'd like. For example, at a breakfast dumpling shop down the road, I'd show them "four vegetarian" on my app and the steamed buns filled with veggies would be ready only moments later. I also used Google Maps (only available with a VPN) to plan routes before I left and figure out what subway line or bus I needed to take because reading the maps were impossible. If in any situation you are unsure of what to do, watch other people and see how they do it. Copy them. I stood on the entry curb at a Buddhist temple and was shouted at because I couldn't read the rules sign. I watched others afterwards and saw that everyone was careful to step over the entry. I later learned that it was disrespectful to stand on the entry itself.
Sea Cucumbers on the Menu

It's no secret that food varies A LOT between cultures and that "western" Chinese food from your local restaurant is nothing like the real thing. China is a huge country and so cuisine varies significantly across the country. It's worth researching what kinds of food are popular in the area you'll be visiting.

If you are eating with others at a restaurant, you will likely be served an empty saucer, bowl and cup. Each dish will come on a large plate and is shared with everyone. One person, the host, usually orders all of the food. There are so many amazing foods in China and many people are very proud of their local delicacies, and you are expected to try what is given to you. If you don't want to eat it, accept the serving from your host and eat around it in your bowl. With food and tea, the faster you consume it, the faster it will be refilled by your host. When you are finished eating or drinking, leave a little left at the bottom to show you are done. There are also loads of food delivery services in China, you'll see the delivery drivers wiz by on mopeds! However, they are notoriously difficult to use for foreigners. We couldn't figure it out without someone fluent in Chinese  present! If you are fluent in Mandarin or are travelling with someone who is, check out this article on popular food delivery apps in China. In addition, it is common in China for people to slurp, burp and smack their lips to show they are enjoying a meal.

How to Prepare: If you have allergies or you are a vegetarian, have a fluent Mandarin speaker record a message on your phone stating that you cannot eat food with this ingredient. Failing that, have it written done. Remember there are over 3000 written characters so it's better to be safe than sorry and have a verbal message.
Traditional hotpot restaurant in Beijing
My favourite Chinese dish is hotpot where you cook meats, tofu and veggies in a hot soup before serving with sauces.
Bonus: Chopsticks. There are no forks or knives with meals in China but waitresses would sometimes bring me a spoon because they thought I would struggle. I purchased a set of chopsticks for $2.00 and practiced for a month or so before I left. Nick did not and brought a travel cutlery set from the dollar store before arriving. My advice would be to bring one of these sets if you think you will have a hard time. Even with practice, I had a hard time eating a fried egg with chopsticks! 
Two women taking a selfie at a street market in Harbin, China.
This woman asked to take a selfie with me.
Staring, Paparazzi and Strangers
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The Chinese are very curious and it isn't considered rude to watch others. If you have ever seen a Mahjong game, strangers will stop by and watch others play. If you are not of east asian decent and travelling outside of Beijing or Shanghai, expect lots of stares and photos being taken of you. This was one of the hardest things for me to deal with when I went to China. It does not help that I have blonde hair, blue eyes and at 5'10", I'm much taller than the average woman in China. People often came up to me and asked to take photos with me. Most people were extremely friendly about it and if I wasn't in a rush, I agreed. However, in one instance, a man grabbed me around the waist, took off my sunglasses and hat without permission, or even saying anything, to take a photo!

How to Prepare: Understand that most people are not being rude, they are just curious. And remember there are a**holes in every country, if you feel uncomfortable at any point, like when the guy who took my sunglasses off, get out of the situation and ask for help. In Mandarin, there is no specific word for no but bù xíng means "not okay" when someone is asking permission to do something. Say this when you don't want people to take photos of you. 
Squat toilet in Northeast Forestry University, Harbin.
A typical squat style toilet in Harbin.
Squat toilets and BYO toilet paper
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One of the biggest shocks you'll find coming from the West are squat toilets. I also shocked to find there was no toilet paper in any of the squat toilets throughout Harbin. It's because I didn't know people carry little packs of toilet tissue with them. They look exactly like mini packs of Kleenex. My friend took me to a market to buy some straight away. Many newer buildings, such as shopping malls and hotels, will have Western style toilets and toilet paper.

How to Prepare: Always carry a pack of toilet paper in your purse or backpack. If you are uncomfortable with squat toilets, look out for newer buildings and the Western toilet symbol on the stall door. 

Be Ready for Crowds
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China has a population of over 1.2 billion people. It is the largest country in the world and Beijing alone has over 21.7 million residents. Beijing and Shanghai have great public transit but there are just so many people you can often be crammed in like sardines. People will push and shove to use all available space! There will be wait times at restaurants and bars in big cities, just like in NYC or London. 


How to Prepare: Avoid travelling at rush hour. Expect crowds, wait times and when in Rome, do as the Romans do. I'm not saying push an old lady down. Just make sure to squeeze on and don't let everyone go ahead of you or you might not get on at all! If you are travelling by bus, make sure to go as far back as possible at every stop (as people get off) and start moving towards the door at the stop before yours.
Crowded bus in Harbin, China.
A crammed bus in Harbin, the capital of Heilongjang province. The city has a population of over 10 million.
Busy street market in Harbin, China
'Snack' street in Harbin on a regular evening.
Mega-cities and Pollution

As I said above, China is the biggest country in the world and obviously, it means their cities are huge! I was still not expecting the vastness of them. For example, where I staying in Harbin to the city center took over an hour by bus. 

​One of the other things I was not expecting in Harbin was the crumbling infrastructure of city property. The concrete of sidewalks and overpasses were crumbling, power lines were leaning precariously and the buses had wires running through them. I read afterwards that often once something is built in China, it doesn't lose it's rating. Meaning a five star hotel from 1980 is still advertised as one now, even if there hasn't been any maintenance since! In Beijing, however, we didn't see anything like this. 

As for pollution, it is typically much worse in the winter and Beijing recently closed all of the factories within city limits. We didn't find pollution to be much a problem, besides car exhaust fumes, when we visited in the summer of 2018. However, in other areas in the country, it can be very bad and many locals wear pollution masks. This study done in Beijing found that pollution masks do work but not all are created equal. 
Cityscape from the Harbin Opera House
One of Harbin's many cityscapes.
How to Prepare: Research travel times before you go and give yourself extra time to get to and from places. Also, read reviews online for places to stay and watch where you walk as to not trip on jagged concrete in these areas.

I checked the Air Quality Index every morning to see if it was healthy to travel outside a lot that day. We also purchased a Vogmask before visiting China in case we ran into heavy pollution. I used it a few times in denser areas; although the air smelt cleaner, I have no way of telling it actually helped keep air pollution out of my lungs. I also didn't sweat too much in the 40 C weather. If you are travelling to a heavily polluted area and want to save a bit of money, the article suggests that work masks with filters (from your local hardware store), are better for than the flimsy medical masks. ​
Woman wearing black Vogmask in China.
Wearing a filtered Vogmask for heavy pollution.
View of Harbin, China from foot bridge
A small section of Harbin, China.
Internet Control

The Chinese government also has a tight hold over internet use. Facebook, Instagram and Google to name a few, are banned. I would have definitely been lost, figuratively and literally, without Google Maps in China. In basic terms, a VPN hides your IP address, and therefore your location, to go around the Chinese internet blocks. Using VPNs is technically banned in the country, however, almost all foreigners do so without issue.

The Fix: I recommend getting a VPN before you leave. We wrote a guide about how to prepare for travelling to China and including more on what VPN to use here. It will feel a lot less lonely in China when you can stay in contact easily with friends and family. Just prepare for an inevitable time difference!
Park security vehicle in Harbin, China
Park security vehicle in Harbin.
Final Thoughts

China is an amazing country and incredibly diverse! I had a fantastic time there and cannot wait to go back! I believe learning about another culture before visiting always make the transition easier. If you know what to expect and how people will act, it shouldn't be a great shock when you land.
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A classical Chinese garden in Beihai Park, Beijing.
Group of four people taking a selfie on a boat in Beihai Park
We rented a boat with friends on the lake at Beihai Park.
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Payton link
5/1/2019 09:13:56 am

China seems so beautiful and full of culture, I would love to visit one day! I loved that you went into so much detail, thanks for sharing. (:

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Caitlin link
5/1/2019 10:02:58 pm

Thank you. It is an incredible country; there is so much to see. I hope you get there one day!

Caitlin
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Alisha Valerie link
5/1/2019 09:33:53 am

China looks like such a beautiful place to visit, it seems like such a huge place that you could easily get lost in though. Love that you have shared some tips on surviving the city. Your pictures are so beautiful. 🌸💜

With love, Alisha Valerie x | www.alishavalerie.com

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Caitlin link
5/1/2019 10:04:56 pm

Thank you so much. You summed it up exactly! It is a huge country that is both diverse in landscapes and culture.

Caitlin
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Eden link
5/1/2019 09:58:19 am

What an interesting article you wrote here! I have considered traveling to China, and hope to visit the Great Wall one day for sure, but hadn't really thought about the culture shock. Now I'm totally looking forward to it. I felt this a bit in Morocco, but after awhile I just really enjoyed all the differences.

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Caitlin link
5/1/2019 10:12:27 pm

That's awesome, thank you! Culture shock can be very exciting. I hope you have a great time when you visit China! It's a beautiful country.

Caitlin
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Donna Biester link
5/2/2019 11:43:14 am

Thank you for the info! I studied Mandarin Chinese and it was difficult. I'll get there one day. Bucket List! 🤗




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